http://awaitingtenure.wordpress.com/2008/07/19/ignoring-forgiving-and-forgetting-only-go-so-far/ Observations from the Other Side of the Lens Thu, 17 Dec 2009 07:13:05 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://awaitingtenure.wordpress.com/2008/07/19/ignoring-forgiving-and-forgetting-only-go-so-far/#comment-1655 eyeingtenure Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:17:47 +0000 http://awaitingtenure.wordpress.com/?p=279#comment-1655 There's always a nagging feeling that I'm ignoring something that I shouldn't be ignoring, though --- like I'm just finding an excuse to do nothing rather than confront whatever I'm ignoring. There’s always a nagging feeling that I’m ignoring something that I shouldn’t be ignoring, though — like I’m just finding an excuse to do nothing rather than confront whatever I’m ignoring.

]]> http://awaitingtenure.wordpress.com/2008/07/19/ignoring-forgiving-and-forgetting-only-go-so-far/#comment-1652 Elona Hartjes Mon, 21 Jul 2008 12:00:23 +0000 http://awaitingtenure.wordpress.com/?p=279#comment-1652 Oh, ignoring and forgiving a lot can hold out a long, long time. Believe me. As you know, you can't really control what people say or do but you can control your reaction to whatever is said and done. Ignoring and forgiving leads to better mental health. Oh, ignoring and forgiving a lot can hold out a long, long time. Believe me. As you know, you can’t really control what people say or do but you can control your reaction to whatever is said and done. Ignoring and forgiving leads to better mental health.

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